DoobieKnicks wrote:I want to go to college but, what college? An even more important question is what major?
Have you spoken to any counselors?
I'd say the initial major isnt that very important since most students usuallly change it a couple times after they begin college and are exposed to different areas of study. Look at me, I took courses directed at Business Administration in high school, started college doing Art, and am currently doing Computer Information Systems. Just find something you like in even the slightest way and go for it(dont forget to apply for scholarships and stuff, your hispanic right?).
Research. Go to
www.bls.gov and just look up jobs you like and find out the average salary at that position or whatever info you can. Go to wikipedia or google and find out what exactly you would be expected to do everyday with a career in that field. You have to be proactive about it (and I'm not referring to the skin care system). Speak to successful people in your family about what they did to get where they are and what advice tehy can give you.
I'm not gonna recommend colleges because thats not very helpful to your situation considering you havent provided much info about what you wanna do. I may recommend a college because I know they are a good research school but what if you dont wanna do research, you wanna become a chef and that college doesnt put as much funding into that area? You have to decide for yourself basically, which and why.The easy way out in life is to make other people make the decisions. Theres a difference between being the one giving the orders and the one taking them. To find out the best college you have to look them up, make some phonecalls, ask plenty question (concerns) then move on to the next one if you dont like what you hear. You have to 'want' to take control of your own situation and simply changing leaving New Jersey may not be the complete solution to your problem. Just keep a positive attitude about your life on a whole. I feel like men think best taking a shit so go grab some Mexican food then go sit on the pit and think deeply about where you want your life to be 15 years from now and how best can you go about achieving that.
To be honest, I had a very good friend in high school who shared the same sentiments you are feeling now. He kept putting off college until "he found out what he wanted to do." He is currently unemployed and still living with his parents. He is also 3 years older than I am. The only reason he is still there is because his family is loaded but not everyone lives in that kinda situation. Now he says he wants to produce beats which I have no problem with but as I said before be proactive about it. Invest your time in what you wanna do and dont just sit around all day eating out your mother's food supply. Go out with your demo or whatever and try to get people hearing your beats. Get around other people who mke beats.
On that note I feel thats the best thing about college, sharing an environment with people who share the same interests and making connections. I look at it as a you help me I help you kinda thing. I have never had to pay a red cent for college and I'm very grateful for that. In return I do what I can to help out. I was in an Honors program so I figured hey, if the director wants me to help with some recruiting why not. If he wants me to make a speech then why not (he's paying for me to be here). From doing these little things I got in their good books and as a result I was basically among first choice in receiving A scholarship when transferring from the school, didnt have to apply or write any essays for study abroad programs(Austria), represented the program when Puffy came for that Vote or Die thingy, get VMA and Grammy tickets, been on Good Morning America with a group representing the program and the list goes on. All these things I wouldnt have done if not for going to college in the first place and then being noticed for the effort I put into making something of myself. I look at it now and I recently applied for a part time job and placed my old director on my reference list and when the people called me up they were talking about how they said great things and I should call them and thank them. Once your in, you can make things happen. When your not, things are kinda tough.
Anyways I feel like I may be straying a bit so I will quit my blabbing. Half of what I just typed I have no recollection of so I'm praying its makes some sense. If not then oh well. Just remember, theres lots of fresh and educated cooch to be had at college also.
