
Will_K8 yeah I see what you're saying dude... I'm the big guy on my team, if I show them how to pass they'll think it's coz I want them to pass me the ball more


either I'll call them all flamming faggots like Laddas said, or I'll try to steal their girlfriends while I chomp on my cigar! MUAHAHAHAH!!!!
Stevan wrote:well since this is the basketball thread, and I do play here is my dilemma...
When a team mate (or several teammates) are dragging your team down, what do you do? We're all friends on this team but it's just not going well since we got moved up a league. I'm a quiet kind of guy on the court and, but after seeing people make the same mistakes week after week, what can I do? I realise I'm not perfect and I really didn't play that well in tonights game, but I made my mistakes when the game was well and truly over.
I've tried making jokes in reference to certain things in the hope that they will atleast get the message, but some people are like walls... atleast walls could play defence. I'm just worried that if I say something people will get upset since some of them can be sensitive. I know they don't put in the effort, and after three seasons a lot of them just don't seem to learn. On top of that one of our players just decides not to show up to random games recently. I pulled an MJ at half time and kind of had a go at the whole team... ofcourse one guy takes it personally. Fuck.
This shit is depressing, I felt like throwing up after the game. I dunno if I've ever been this close to blowing up before...
Sorry to dampen the mood, god basketball can be a bitch sometimes. If I blow up they'll hate me, if I try to talk to them properly they won't respond. One guy was pissed off that he played poorly so he said he was gonna go shoot around tomorrow. A guy that takes no shots, is going to go work on his jumpshot, and continue to throw no look passes and other ridiculous passes, and rack up 10 turnovers and not take a shot. Arrggg!
I told everyone they played like pussies during half time
I told my team mates that each and every one of them is a shit cunt
Maybe you should try encouraging them in a slightly less abusive manner. I say this not as a shot at you but rather as constructive criticism. Your hard ass strategy does work with some people. Then again some people simply don't respond to it. My advice to you would be to try and give people constructive criticism (like pull them aside and suggest a better way to do something). This especially applies if you're one of the better players on the team, because the other players will think "hey he's trying to help me, maybe I should listen." instead of "Man, he thinks I suck, I shouldn't even bother trying". This strategy will also make you less likely to lose your friends during the season.
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