*Girl problem* No, I'm not Emo.

YouTube · by **shadowgrin** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 9:51 am

^^ Thankfully no.

Andrew wrote:That's not to say you should give up on the whole idea but the last thing you want to do is cause more awkwardness for her at the moment.

That's the thing I'm worried about.
I'm still going with my intentions though. And if she ever feels awkard about the whole situation, I would tell her straight out like what cyanide said.

But if that ever happens I feel I might blow it all by saying something like "I'm not courting you. Gahd, you are so vain."

*Feels weird, as if Drew Carey is giving out advice.* :shock:

by **hipn** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 10:09 am

Comfort her, be there for her as a boyfriend or a friend. Its easier if your a friend compared to a boyfriend.

Bluesky · by **Andrew** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 10:31 am

shadowgrin wrote:*Feels weird, as if Drew Carey is giving out advice.*

Funnily enough he did give out dating advice in his book, but it was somewhat sarcastic.

Going with your gut feeling isn't such a bad idea, but I like I said before tread carefully with it. I'm sure she'll appreciate you being there for her one way or another. Hopefully she'll change her mind about treatment as well but if she truly doesn't want to undergo any treatment there's no point forcing her.

by **Colin** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 10:35 am

Andrew wrote:Funnily enough he did give out dating advice in his book, but it was somewhat sarcastic.

I have a book by him. Titled something like Beer, Sex, and Dirty Jokes. Very funny.

Bluesky · by **Andrew** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 10:42 am

"Dirty Jokes & Beer: Stories of the Unrefined". Excellent read. (Y)

by **paseo85** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 11:01 am

Main thing to stay positive, And who knows she may live longer than 5yrs and could be longer me or anyone on this board. Just keep your head up dude. :wink:

by **hipn** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 11:19 am

Tell her taht medication or treatment is a lot better than just sitting at home or living life knowing when you are going to die and not doing anything to prevent yourself from dying so soon in your life.

I'm guessing she's in her late teens or maybe 16, so just tell her that she can choose to die in 5years and lose everything and miss 30-40 years of her life or she can take mediaction and/or get treatment and help herself and live a fun life with friends and family and have kids and wach them grow up.

by **killer_cr0ss0ver** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 12:07 pm

Dear joe.. :mrgreen:

just tell her your a friend she can lean to...

and PRAY!!!

PRAY!

PRAY!

PRAY!

PRAy for her. Pray with her... (Y)

by **Drex** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 2:30 pm

If she'd going to die soon then she better do something else than pray

I got an idea for a thread.

I can't add too much to what everybody has said already. Just be ther with her, she'll appreciate it.

by **[Q]** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 3:17 pm

VanK wrote:
cyanide wrote:Actually guys can have breast cancer too. It's like 2% of the population, though.

. They can actually take one of my boobs? What the hell? Men have breasts? Again, what the hell?

yes, men have breasts too.

by **Laxation** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 5:30 pm

make her last 5 years great, whatever it is you choose to do. (Y)

YouTube · by **shadowgrin** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 6:17 pm

hipn wrote:I'm guessing she's in her late teens or maybe 16

Yep, late teens. She's 18

killer_cr0ss0ver wrote:PRAY!

You and your god.

j/k

Drex wrote:If she'd going to die soon then she better do something else than pray

That's also my philosophy. I'm sure God wanted us to work and improve ourselves instead of staying in a church/synagogue/mosque all day and having self-pity.

qballer wrote:yes, men have breasts too.

Great QB, now the forum members will be touching themselves after knowing that. :lol:

by **Null17** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 6:46 pm

what a dilemma. just keep her company. at least be a good friend. make her enjoy what's left of her life at least.

by **Bang** on Sat Dec 17, 2005 7:59 pm

Um...She should be in the hospital or something. It's only going to make things worse. Even if there's 0.000000001% chance of survival, it's better to fight for that tiny percentage than giving up. You never know what human will can do, but just not treating will just make it worse and worse. If she's that sick, say to her to go to the hospital and get treatment, no matter how hopeless it seems, because giving up hope is the worst thing you can do. Why won't she go to the hospital anyhow? It's never ever ever ever a good thing.

by **cyanide** on Sun Dec 18, 2005 3:14 am

Yeah, after reading some of this, I'd really encourage having her seek treatment. If she's not doing it for religious reasons, then have a priest or something "bless" her because I've heard stories where cancer patients actually recovered fully when there was virtually no chance... worth a try.

by **Jackal** on Sun Dec 18, 2005 3:18 am

Are you at least considering the raping?

YouTube · by **shadowgrin** on Sun Dec 18, 2005 7:22 am

No Jackal.
Banging women with a serious condition doesn't really turn me on. I think it's near necrophilia.

Ho-ho-ho to you.

by **hipn** on Sun Dec 18, 2005 10:42 am

IS she like really sick, like is she not able to walk and stuff or walk straight, or is she like normal and just sick, I mean does she seem normal, but her internal body is like dyng?

by **Jackal** on Mon Dec 19, 2005 2:41 am

No Jackal.
Banging women with a serious condition doesn't really turn me on. I think it's near necrophilia.

In that case, may I rape her? :cheeky:

by **The Other Kevin** on Mon Dec 19, 2005 2:42 am

Do you want to be near that many Pinoys, Jackal?

by **Fenix** on Mon Dec 19, 2005 2:54 am

What is with Pinoys and NBA Live? It's logical that there's a lot of Chinese people around here, because there's a helluva lot of Chinese people in general. But Pinoys?

by **Jackal** on Mon Dec 19, 2005 3:24 am

Oh my, I was unaware he was a Pinoy. :oops:

Nevermind, I retract my offer to friendly raping of your female friend. Sorry.

YouTube · by **shadowgrin** on Mon Dec 19, 2005 3:39 am

Jackal wrote:In that case, may I rape her?

A person must be dead in order for it to be necrophilia, Jackal. Just wait for the funeral.

by **Jackal** on Mon Dec 19, 2005 4:53 am

I retracted my offer, now cease speaking of it.

Girl problem No, I'm not Emo.

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