Your biggest flaw/weakness?

[JaoSming]

Procrastination - 'nuff said...


Once I start something I finish it, but my problem is I never get started.

[Laxation]

I always have bad luck.

Make your own luck...

I'm poor at communicating with girls/I'm shy. Etc.

I'm like that too. I'm generally a shy/quiet person initially, but I really open up once I get to know someone. That's another one of my 'flaws' that I still struggle with at times with people in general.

This forum needs a 'help with women thread'... Theres 6million guys here - the demand has gotta be huge

[j.23]

i for one, would be in support of opening the thread.
however, i think i'll be the only one who's going to be constantly posting in the thread

[Zoom]

Just a word of advice for those dudes who say they are shy around girls... some girls like shy people; so don't sweat!

[cyanide]

This forum needs a 'help with women thread'... Theres 6million guys here - the demand has gotta be huge

Since you quoted me, I do have to mention that I don't have problem with women since I am currently in a committing relationship, but I meant with people in general.

[Laxation]

I guess I got the wrong impression when you said "Im [poor at communicating with girls] like that too"

i for one, would be in support of opening the thread.
however, i think i'll be the only one who's going to be constantly posting in the thread

id put that to everyone saying "I dont have women problems cos I'm fucking fantastic and I can dunk and am 7feet tall and the best player in my basketball team"


me... i dont have women problems cos im studying yay for exams ay?


which reminds me - did anything happen with that girl from your work?

[j.23]

which reminds me - did anything happen with that girl from your work?

oh you know, the usual. just fucking the shit out of her right now with my huge 20 inch penis. (flaccid)


in all seriousness, there's still a lot of flirting going on. i still don't listen to her when she asks me to do shit, i just ignore it, but its all in good fun. kinda throws me the occasional jab or shoulder squeeze as well.

then there's another one who follows me around and talks to me quite a bit. didn't really think much of her at first but i'm quite fond of her now. we talk quite a bit and she always touches me, i don't know why. i could be standing there with no around me and she'd just come up beside me and touch me to get through as if the location is a busy hallway. again, i kinda stay away from her because she's also had a boyfriend of 3 years.


THEN.. theres another one i work with on the weekends. she txt messages me at night on the weekends to check up on me. she insists i need to hang out with her outside of work because i only see her innocent side. ah yes, i can take a hint. however, i can also take a hint that you just turned 17 and i just turned 20. btw, is that pedophilia or am i a-ok?

[Laxation]

she always touches me, i don't know why.

Take a wild, crazy guess -.-

is that pedophilia or am i a-ok?

if shes hot - its fine

from all these girls hanging off you, are getting it "daily and nightly and every so rightly"

[---]

Make your own luck...

How?

however, i can also take a hint that you just turned 17 and i just turned 20. btw, is that pedophilia or am i a-ok?

If you were just-gone-17 and liked a just-gone-20 year old chick, would you do her? That answers your question. Do it.

[air gordon]

my biggest weakness/flaw is that i do not like monotony- which leads me into doing a lot of unnecessary things just to avoid the daily routine

this applies especially to:

work- i take days off just to break the routine. i've transferred to many departments and even work odd 2nd jobs as well. with my commute to work, i take different routes weekly, even if it will take me longer

friends- i can be pretty nomadic, hanging out with a different group of friends monthly. sometimes i don't even bother answering my phone if that someone calling is someone i just saw last weekend lol

eating/drinking: if i drink in consectutive days, it can't be same beer or liquor 2 days in a row. if i have potatoes for a few days in a row, i avoid it for a month. leftovers are something i give to the homeless. and i alternate liking and hating totino's pizza monthly lol

this does drives my GF, friends, family, and boss crazy. ah well, the first step in getting over a problem is admitting it

[Axel]

My biggest weakness is cigarettes.

I could never smoke. Spending all that money would kill me.

I guess I'm opposite of a lot of the loose spenders here. I hate spending money. I completely cut out my dried fruit addiction because it was costing more than I could stand. I probably just sound naive, but I couldn't imagine myself being addicted to alcohol or cigarettes. All I would be able to think of is how much money I could be putting elsewhere.

[j.23]

from all these girls hanging off you, are getting it "daily and nightly and every so rightly"

in a perfect world, yes.

i know eventually something will emerge from one of these three. i'm still keeping my distance anyways; i don't want to be upfront about anything yet. one of my coworkers. one of my coworkers has already freaked out one of the girls because he tried to seek rapport really quickly. yeahhh, not a good idea. i got all the time in the world, i don't gotta rush nothing.

[Mentally Hilarious]

Hmm... flaws are really in the eye of the beholder.

I have quite a few things that many would consider as flaws, but I just accept them for what they are. And I'm comfortable with them.

I'm a workaholic to the point where I've spent nights doing work for one firm and then going to my regular job in the morning. But never to the point where my relationship suffers. My fiancee knows that I do that, and kind of accepts it.

I'm a cynic, satirical liberal to the point where I always think that everyone I meet are morons. It's up to them to prove me otherwise. Considering the general idiot-to-normal ratio it's a good defense mechanism. I dislike idiots, religious people, conservatives, popculturists, hiphopculturists (see, I'm making words!) and many other kinds of people. But I hold their right to be all those things as holy. That is - I dislike what they think and how they act, but their right to think and act that way is really important to me.

I'm elitist, manipulative and I always use the situation to my advantage. That is if those I really do love never get hurt by it.

Oh, and I look down on those that interpret any religious text as the law. No matter the religion - they're all fuckers as far as I'm concerned.

[runthestreetz]

having been everywhere, and seen losts a stuff in my life, generally most people are messed up. its because the current generation Y do not have proper grounding anymore.

but realise one thing, heaven and hell are both your own creations. picture a man without a leg, no hands and no family whatsoever, (except for a sister who he is not close to at all, she lives in a state so far away) and having cancer. now picture somebody asking if he is allright, he goes: "i am soo happy. i live each day how i want it, and i couldn't be happier" when asked why, he goes: "i have a choice right now, i could either be sad, or i could be happy. i thinks its an easy choice, so i chose the latter." now picture this being the truth, and picture yourself happy. you can do it, unless you are happier being unhappy and being a 'victim'.

[Mentally Hilarious]

having been everywhere, and seen losts a stuff in my life, generally most people are messed up. its because the current generation Y do not have proper grounding anymore.

but realise one thing, heaven and hell are both your own creations. picture a man without a leg, no hands and no family whatsoever, (except for a sister who he is not close to at all, she lives in a state so far away) and having cancer. now picture somebody asking if he is allright, he goes: "i am soo happy. i live each day how i want it, and i couldn't be happier" when asked why, he goes: "i have a choice right now, i could either be sad, or i could be happy. i thinks its an easy choice, so i chose the latter." now picture this being the truth, and picture yourself happy. you can do it, unless you are happier being unhappy and being a 'victim'.

Here's a stab in the dark, you listen to emo.

[runthestreetz]

My biggest weakness is cigarettes. I really have no desire to quit smoking, but I was doing a good job cutting back for awhile, now I'm back at about a pack a day. I love cigarettes so much, and I really don't think I want to quit, but I also don't want to be a heavy smoker for 20 more years and end up dying before I turn 45.

research consistently shows that if you quit for a year, your lungs will return to almost like you haven't smoked before.

though of course, if you quit tooo late (like maybe when u start having breathing problems and are on the verge of having killer asthma attacks) your cells are probably beyond repair, but thats for peeps smoking for more than maybe 30years.

[runthestreetz]

Mentally Hilarious,

who doesn't? 2pac was emo.

[Mentally Hilarious]

My biggest weakness is cigarettes. I really have no desire to quit smoking, but I was doing a good job cutting back for awhile, now I'm back at about a pack a day. I love cigarettes so much, and I really don't think I want to quit, but I also don't want to be a heavy smoker for 20 more years and end up dying before I turn 45.

research consistently shows that if you quit for a year, your lungs will return to almost like you haven't smoked before.

though of course, if you quit tooo late (like maybe when u start having breathing problems and are on the verge of having killer asthma attacks) your cells are probably beyond repair, but thats for peeps smoking for more than maybe 30years.

This is, of course, horribly wrong. Even if the lungs return to a somewhat healthy state you still will have put your heart and other organs under tremendous amounts of stress thus shortening your life. Oh, and don't forget the sexy disease that is KOL. That one is fun!

[Nick]

Mentally Hilarious,

who doesn't? 2pac was emo.

Good call. And i agree.

Emo is a silly tag. What music isn't emotional? Every song makes you feel a certain way. Whether it be pumping your fist in the air, dancing, hangin with da bitchas and ho's, slitting your wrists, or having your ears vomit, etc..

However, considering which kind of music IS labelled as emo, and the people that listen to it, you seem like one.

[Mentally Hilarious]

Mentally Hilarious,

who doesn't? 2pac was emo.

Good call. And i agree.

Emo is a silly tag. What music isn't emotional? Every song makes you feel a certain way. Whether it be pumping your fist in the air, dancing, hangin with da bitchas and ho's, slitting your wrists, or having your ears vomit, etc..

However, considering which kind of music IS labelled as emo, and the people that listen to it, you seem like one.

Emo would be a silly tag if it referred to the style of music and people as the only style being able to convey or for that matter feel emotions. Now this is not the case. Emo is just a tag, nothing more.

[Laxation]

Emo is a silly tag. What music isn't emotional?

Emo doesnt mean 'emotional music' in the sence it makes you feel emotional - not anymore at least...

[runthestreetz]

emo is just a tag? don't really get it
not anything, but maybe you are just being sarcastic or i'm reading you wrong, but you are contradicting yourself

i'm getting emo is just a tag, to tag people of a certain genre? although you said it isn't inclusive of just certain groups only, i think its a little bit contradictory, like please elaborate a bit more...

not being a fan of rock music (not a BIG fan) i just like southern rap most, gangsta rap. I was told by a rock friend (slipknot, tool, etc) that emo is like goth people, those dudes who dress in all black all day
although i do dress in black most of the time (black and1 jerseys, nike black sweats) mafioso shit (its subconcious?) i ain't emo as in goth emo. but maybe there is a correllation!?

i'm just real tho, i stand up for most in real life, like i am not superficial. i hanged with dudes who were ex-military don people, who took bribes and shit because they had to (wages were fucking low) but were deep down nice peeps. took care of me. but were sort of uneducated, u know? that was latter stages of childhood for me, so i can't small talk like most. when the shit u be talkin is like, i'm standing in front of you, you are the first to go down, so if your gang wants to cut mine, there will be bloodshed and we both on the losing end. but since you are the one closest to me you'll go down first, u know i lived thru that daily. scars. so maybe i'm more emotionally real, but i think its good because with anybody, i stand up for them, and myself. no bs kinda, u know?

[Laxation]

Dude what the fuck are you talking about? I dont know if you are trying to talk yourself up by saying who you hang around with, or what you wear, and I dont know if you think it makes you look cool, but it doesnt, and its just a random tangent...

Its got abso-fucking-lutely nothing to do with emo music





...which is gay

[BIG GREEN]

All i know is...fall out boy is considered emo..and i like a couple of their songs quite alot. If thats gay then shoot me.

[---]

runthestreetz, where are you from?

I have heard one song from fall out boy and I couldn't make out 1 word of it