The Relationship Thread

by **COOLmac©** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 1:48 pm

well when it comes to girls, you have to be a bit sensitive. they alwys love to hear what they want to hear...those freaks :lol:

by **BOSS** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 1:52 pm

Nice tips guys. Ye am not much of the talkative one but around friends am normal. But when it comes to talkin to someone new, it's all a blur and i try to start a convo.

by **Riot** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 1:53 pm

DoobieKnicks wrote:Lol , nah man , Open as in saying everything in my mind . I don't give a fuck , if a girl asks me if shes ugly and I think shes ugly , ill say yea you are . I can be too honest about how I feel sometimes.

I'm known to be pretty honest as well, but when it comes to women you have to lie. And you have to perfect how to lie because they can sense right through it. It takes time, patience and practice. :wink:

by **cyanide** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 1:53 pm

Being clever and or witty is always nice. Goddamn that statement is becoming a cliche more now these days.

And CoolMac is right, a little bit of sensitivity instead of 100% pure macho is enough to make a girl gush, er, blush.

by **Fresh8** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 2:05 pm

When you meet a girl for the first time, remember to smile and say their name. Also while you talk, make sure you're in a good posture and look happy and listen to what they say. Becuase first impressions count and all girls usually look at your body action and face movements or something when they first meet you. They rarely do care too much about what you say.

by **Anthony15** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 2:06 pm

I didn't have a g/f and not searching for one right now!

by **BOSS** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 2:18 pm

Anthony15 wrote:I didn't have a g/f and not searching for one right now!

I see. You have alot of time ahead of you so that's good. Ye aint doing this to jus go out wit her, I wanna see how her personality is and stuff. All I know is that she is a good dresser and plays basketball which is a really big thumbs up (y)

(y)(y)

Like i said earlier thanks for these tips. I'll keep you updated. Hope all works out and i gain that courage to speak up.

by **Anthony15** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 2:32 pm

Sit wrote:They rarely do care too much about what you say.

Its really good to be a foreigner in US. Chicks forgive u anything. For instance me and my Bulgarian Friend were just joknig around and he slapped girls ass. I just said that some dude told us to do it and she said its OK.

by **Malfa** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:02 pm

Sit wrote:No way Cable Guy... my firend is 18 and he is the best looking guy at school (Im not gay... but yeah, its generally accepted that he is lol) and hes not even interested in going out wit anyone yet... although if he snapped his fingers, a whole line of girls would line up. It's quite normal.. ur only 15 lol

Anyways from the letting off steam thread... I'm in a 'love triangle'
I like this one girl... she doesnt feel the same. Everyone thought we'd get together... cause i suspect her of purposely leading me on...
Then her best friend likes me but I don't feel the same and now, I really have no idea wat to do.

The girl I like made me know what it feels to be rejected... but should I reject her friend? Or should I give her a chance?

hes gay!

by **BOSS** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:08 pm

Now people, help out fellow NLSC member SIT and give him some advice or tips on what to do. Best of luck to him.

by **Jackal_** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:25 pm

I think everyone knows who my love life consists of..

by **BOSS** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:29 pm

Legend wrote:I think everyone knows who my love life consists of..

Yup yup. I think we all do :lol:

by **Jackal_** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:30 pm

CYANIDES MOTHER IS MY SOULMATE

by **Fresh8** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 3:40 pm

Is Cy ur bum buddy by any chance?

by **J@3** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 5:06 pm

I don't try and do anything specific when it comes to girls. Be yourself is the best advice I can give, if you try and force anything they'll see it straight away.

by **Jackal_** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 6:21 pm

Sit wrote:Is Cy ur bum buddy by any chance?

No sir.

*points back to your corner*

by **Mentally Hilarious** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 6:55 pm

Colin wrote:I used to be quite the geek, glasses and all. So a lot of the girls I know around here still see that in me. They still talk to me, but I know they think I'm the nice guy. However, when I'm meeting people for the first time, all of a sudden I'm higher up the ladder, without having to apply the ladder theory.

Had the same thing, kinda. Let's just say I grew into my looks. Was an ugleh mofo before puberty was done with me and I was more a man than a boy. But living in a small town, you kinda got percieved like the person you were instead of the person you are.

Moved towns, and had to beat girls of me with a stick. Well... that isn't really true. Got together with a girl a week after I moved here, stayed together a few months, then I met my fiancée.

by **Matt** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 7:03 pm

dont look at a girls boobs when your talking to her...even if they appear to be looking right back at you and pleading to be touched...never works out too well

on the real....relationships as teenagers are just retarded....especially when people get all "serious"

by **The X** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 8:55 pm

I'd have to agree with Matt there....

as for me, I've been in relationship with gf for about 3 and a half months now....going alright....I didn't know/had forgotten her middle names and it came up and I don't think she was happy I forgot....but I sneakily checked her driver's licence for the answer and told her I did remember :twisted:

basically, if you're looking to score, then be confident, lie if you have to, just do what you have to do and tell them what they want to hear....if you're looking for more, just be yourself, whether it's shy, outgoing or whatever, because the right girl has to like you for you and it will happen....

by **cyanide** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 11:10 pm

The X wrote:lie if you have to, just do what you have to do and tell them what they want to hear

I just wanna clarify for the young'uns that lying is a big no-no, as sooner or later she will find out, but as for "does this dress make me look fat?" well, a "white" lie doesn't hurt, and I think that's what The X was trying to get at.

by **Mentally Hilarious** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 11:14 pm

cyanide wrote:
The X wrote:lie if you have to, just do what you have to do and tell them what they want to hear

I just wanna clarify for the young'uns that lying is a big no-no, as sooner or later she will find out, but as for "does this dress make me look fat?" well, a "white" lie doesn't hurt, and I think that's what The X was trying to get at.

Oooooooooooohhhhh... the does-this-*thing*-make-me-look-fat. Horrible question. You're never safe when that comes around. That and the do-these-shoes-match. Ouch.

EDIT:

Don't fucking lie. She'll have your balls for it.

by **cyanide** on Wed Sep 14, 2005 11:29 pm

So saying, "yes" to "does this dress make you look fat?" still exempt you from her having your balls?

I haven't been asked that question, thank god, but since I have problems making a lie, I'd probably would've said "kind of." I remember while clothes shopping with my ex, she asked me how this shirt looked that she was trying on, and she asked me how it looked. I thought it was a little loose in the sense it gave the illusion of additional weight, so I simply said, "Naw, I liked the other shirt better." Vague answers work too

by **Mentally Hilarious** on Thu Sep 15, 2005 12:14 am

cyanide wrote:So saying, "yes" to "does this dress make you look fat?" still exempt you from her having your balls?

I haven't been asked that question, thank god, but since I have problems making a lie, I'd probably would've said "kind of." I remember while clothes shopping with my ex, she asked me how this shirt looked that she was trying on, and she asked me how it looked. I thought it was a little loose in the sense it gave the illusion of additional weight, so I simply said, "Naw, I liked the other shirt better." Vague answers work too

Vague rules all. Pax Vague.

by **BOSS** on Thu Sep 15, 2005 6:13 am

Girls rarely say that these days.

As for how my day was today, it was normal. Didn't meet her yet but that can wait for this week.

by **Jackal_** on Thu Sep 15, 2005 6:20 am

Initial D wrote:Girls rarely say that these days.

As for how my day was today, it was normal. Didn't meet her yet but that can wait for this week.

That's what you think.. how many fat bitches are there in bangkok? lol.. probably 2? Come to North America and see the assortment of fat cunts we have here.

Woman: "Honey, does this dress make me look fat?"

Man: "Yes bitch, your ass is huge and disgusting, not to mention your mellon for a face"

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