Sat Dec 10, 2011 10:17 am
Most people think of "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer" as a cute little story about a cute little reindeer with a cute shiny nose and a happy ending.
Think again, says George Giuliani, a special ed professor at Long Island University in New York, who has written an alternative to the Christmas classic called "No More Bullies at the North Pole."
He recently went on "Fox & Friends" to discuss the issue and says the treatment Rudolph receives from jolly St. Nick and his merry band of reindeer is tantamount to bullying.
For example, when Comet, the team coach, discovers Rudolph's nose glows, he banishes him from the team and tells the other reindeer to never let him join in any reindeer games.
"What a terrible message to send to children," Giuliani told ABCNews.com.
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But Rudolph has a happy ending, you may say. Santa realizes the reindeer's glowing red nose can actually guide his sleigh through a Christmas night snowstorm. Everyone applauds. End of story, right?
Not so fast, says Giuliani. "The message to disabled children is we will not accept you as you are, but only if you can do something extraordinary," he said.
Herbert Nieburg, a Connecticut psychologist and bullying expert, said Rudolph's story is absolutely a case of bullying, specifically "ostracism and exclusion."
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For parents who grew up with these classic Christmas cartoons, it's no longer enough to sit and enjoy them with your children.
"Parents should have a conversation with their kids," Nieburg said, "the main one being about difference. How do we work with people who are different? It's not just having a red nose, it's being gay, smart, athletic. Parents should talk constantly with kids about how we treat other people."
Giuliani invites parents to read his book with their kids after watching Rudolph. The book, which can be downloaded at his website learningaboutbullying.com is about 10 of Santa's policies that Mrs. Claus shows him are unfair or hurtful. It's a book that reflects the times we live in.
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Sat Dec 10, 2011 10:53 pm
Oznogrd wrote:Its ok to not fit in because most of the time you're more badass than the normal people.
Not so fast, says Giuliani. "The message to disabled children is we will not accept you as you are, but only if you can do something extraordinary," he said.
Sun Dec 11, 2011 11:06 am
Oznogrd wrote:The bullies dont get to hang out with awesome gay dentists, bear prospectors, and their boyfriend abominable snowmen.
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badreligionau wrote:I thought the moral of the story was not to pick on people because they might end up being your boss.
Wed Dec 14, 2011 1:13 pm
Andrew wrote:badreligionau wrote:I thought the moral of the story was not to pick on people because they might end up being your boss.
Kind of, come to think of it.
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