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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Jackal on Wed Jul 14, 2010 8:11 pm

Your jobs dont support my extravagant lifestyle.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby The X on Wed Jul 14, 2010 9:45 pm

I've seen similar situation happen with friends, except in this case it carried on for a month or two, & when shit hit the fan, it got very messy & awkward for mutual friends.

As for your situation, that's some pretty cold stuff right there, although I wouldn't put it past a couple of my "friends" to do the same thing to me if given a chance. Alcohol is no excuse. One thing is kissing her then quickly realising & stopping the situation. The fact it went on for a few minutes probably meant either your friendship doesn't mean that much to you or that you're just a selfish prick.

I guess the one positive out of it is you just kissed her, doesn't sound like it got to sexual side from what you are saying. That would be a friendship & relationship breaker right there.

I don't know whether you should fess up, it's a tough call. I'm usually of adage that the truth shall set you free, & I actually think it would. However you shouldn't throw her under a bus without her knowing (even if she is a bitch). You should definitely try to talk to her to clear the air to ensure that both of you agree that it was a one-off mistake & that there are no lingering feelings from either side (e.g. she might think you have feelings for her).
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby J@3 on Wed Jul 14, 2010 10:01 pm

This is where he doesn't update us at all, then disappears for three months and comes back with a new thread about being kicked out of home or killing his girlfriends cat or something.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Patr1ck on Thu Jul 15, 2010 12:28 am

We should add a Doobie subforum.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby J@3 on Thu Jul 15, 2010 1:59 am

Someone else would have to moderate it because he's never around.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby shadowgrin on Thu Jul 15, 2010 2:03 am

I would volunteer but I hate Doobie and would probably ban him after another one of his 'Doobie dramz', rendering that subforum useless like Doobie.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Doobie on Thu Jul 15, 2010 2:05 am

Well I'm here, I've been lurking just not responding.. I haven't been able to speak to her about it, whenever I bring it up she changes the subject or avoids it and makes believe I did'nt say a word.

It's fucked up, and I'm not here for self pity or any of that shit. I just want to know how other people would handle it. I can't speak to anyone I really know about some of these things because they can't be trusted, so I just spill it out on a forum with random strangers.

I haven't got kicked out my house yet, but I am moving with my dad (finally). And I killed a friends cat the other day :wink: (this didn't happen.)
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Jackal on Thu Jul 15, 2010 3:27 am

I can't speak to anyone I really know about some of these things because they can't be trusted, so I just spill it out on a forum with random strangers.


Quit tongue fucking your friends' girlfriends and you might actually make friends who you can share this nonsense with. They'll at least pretend to give a shit.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Patr1ck on Thu Jul 15, 2010 3:27 am

Obviously, you forget it ever happened based on her response. She probably regrets that it happened, that's why she avoided the discussion or changes the subject.

If you are feeling guilty at all, get even by making out with her boyfriend.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby shadowgrin on Thu Jul 15, 2010 3:49 am

Pdub wrote:If you are feeling guilty at all, get even by making out with her boyfriend.

Axel approves.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Axel The Great on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:27 am

Hmmm... I don't think so. :lol:
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby shadowgrin on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:36 am

Not really. You're not the only Axel in the forums. :roll:
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Axel The Great on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:38 am

Oh I know, when I tried to sign up as just Axel, it wasn't available. :cry:

Anyways, I'm not falling for your shenanigans, I'm the only Axel active right now. :scold:
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Doobie on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:45 am

For once shadow is actually being serious about the other axel.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Axel The Great on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:47 am

Oh well, shadowgrin, I guess I owe you an apology. :bowdown: :lol:
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Murat on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:54 am

Axel13 wrote:Oh I know, when I tried to sign up as just Axel, it wasn't available. :cry:

Anyways, I'm not falling for your shenanigans, I'm the only Axel active right now. :scold:


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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Axel The Great on Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:59 am

OK, let's not get off topic about someone else who has the same name as I.

Doobs, my thoughts on your situation, if she continues to pretend it didn't happen, well then, play along. Like The X said, plenty of other people in this world would do the same thing if given the chance.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Doobie on Thu Jul 15, 2010 6:49 am

Wanna know what makes it worse? She's not hot
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby shadowgrin on Thu Jul 15, 2010 8:02 am

Well that is the huge mistake.
If you're going to be Judas to your friend might as well because she's hot or at least do-able. Very do-able.

You really are a sick backstabber. :shake:
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Its_asdf on Thu Jul 15, 2010 8:05 am

After months of being MIA from this site the first thing I see is a Doobie posting a thread involving drama in his life.

Things haven't really changed at all have they?
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Jackal on Thu Jul 15, 2010 8:49 am

Well, the Raptors suck again...
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Lean on Thu Jul 15, 2010 9:23 am

Doobie wrote:Wanna know what makes it worse? She's not hot


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Case closed.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Doobie on Thu Jul 15, 2010 10:22 am

Jackie why are you on my back? I don't think I've done a thing to you. Seriously I'm not here to argue with anyone, if it bothers you that much just ignore me. Things have changed and this isn't really drama. Everything Is all good in my life, this is just something that happened that I regret. Thanks for the input fellas.
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Jackal on Thu Jul 15, 2010 10:29 am

I'm not on your back. You just irritate me with your constant bloody vagina bullshit. I could indeed just ignore your random PMS rantings or I could voice my opinion about you being a vag.

"Oh woe is me I share with you cuz I cant trust anyone boo fuckin hoo so tell me what to do..give me advice...which I'll promptly ignore and never address the issue with you guys again and come up with some new other fag shit to whine and moan about."
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Re: I've made a huge mistake.

Postby Doobie on Thu Jul 15, 2010 11:10 am

Ok there Jackie. Bravo :applaud:
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