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Sat Dec 24, 2005 11:59 am
Ok ive got a situation im in right now and I want to know if its cheating or not. Aight, Im single riht now and me and an ex have been talking alot the last few months. We worked out most of our differences and now we're probably best friends.
But this is the situation, we have been hanging out ALOT lately (3 times this week). So she's going out with this guy whose a total bag of douche (I call him BOD so thats what he'll be in the story) and i really have never liked him. He's a band guy listens to classic rock and is really loud and such, you know what kind of guy im talking about. So they've been going out maybe 2 weeks and before that she was really coming on to me and I was thinking she wanted to get back together. So i went along with and I've reeally started to like her.
But the thing is shes with the BOD. But the cheating part is this. The last 2 days me and jer have hung out. On wednesday we went to the mall with another couple, as friends. And they were kinda all over eachother so we kept our distanse and looked for christmas presents. Then my friend who was with us had to go to the church to do somthing with drums practicing for Christmas so we went there we were walking around cuz the church was empty and my firend was hanging all over me holding hands and stuff. We were like that all night she had my coat on and all that too.
The yesterday we hung out again. First we wnet to the mall again then we went to the ice cream place and shared an icecream, then we went to someones house and watched anmd movie and she was a cuddly and stuff there like holding hands and putting her head on my shoulder. ?Then when we left there we were going to take me home and we were throwing snow at eachother and were all touchy again.
Its not like i've fucked her or anything but is all this interaction and countless flirting and stuff considered cheating? Her BOD has no idea about it and he would prolly get mega pissed if he found out. I made a bet about how long her and him would last which im guessing wont last long but she found out about it and hated me, then we worked it out and were back to this, we will prolly go out when this is over but am I starting a fire by doing all this stuff? I love her to death and shes my favorite person to hang with, I dunoo, if you have any advice throw it out there please, but what do you think cheating is?
Sat Dec 24, 2005 12:26 pm
good god... this is complex.
kill the bod and... j/k
well. if u feel that strongly about her. just let time take its cause and eventually u'll be togather XD
but that first option is always kinda opened
Sat Dec 24, 2005 12:56 pm
that's not cheating.
you're just being flirty, it's not that big of a deal (as long as her boyfriend is not there).
Sat Dec 24, 2005 1:03 pm
You should ask her about the relationship shes in, like ask her how it's going. And if you want to get back with her, than ask her if she wants to, and tell her not to tell anybody that you asked her. IF she says yes, then take her back, and kinda have a quet relationship, what I mean is let nobody know for atleast 3 weeks so her current boyfriend won't suspect anything.
If she is holding hands with you, being all touchy, and resting her head on your shoulder, then I am pretty sure she want to be with you again.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 1:29 pm
hipn wrote:You should ask her about the relationship shes in, like ask her how it's going. And if you want to get back with her, than ask her if she wants to, and tell her not to tell anybody that you asked her. IF she says yes, then take her back, and kinda have a quet relationship, what I mean is let nobody know for atleast 3 weeks so her current boyfriend won't suspect anything.
If she is holding hands with you, being all touchy, and resting her head on your shoulder, then I am pretty sure she want to be with you again.
Do not do that lol
A lot of girls are like that...it's just their nature to be close, I'd say wait till she breaks up with 'BOD' which hopefully for you will be soon and then make a move on her.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 1:40 pm
j.23 wrote:that's not cheating.
you're just being flirty, it's not that big of a deal (as long as her boyfriend is not there).
So if your girlfriend was doing all that shit with me and you didnt know about it you wouldnt be pissed at all?

hipn wrote:If she is holding hands with you, being all touchy, and resting her head on your shoulder, then I am pretty sure she want to be with you again.
I know she still likes me but I don't know what to do.
SkipToMy_Lou wrote:Do not do that lol
I agree.
Should I talk to her about it? I mean we're REALLY close, like if anything bad ever happens/happened to her Im the first person she'd go to.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 1:52 pm
Rip32 wrote:Should I talk to her about it?
I think you should.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 1:54 pm
I learned this on Discovery Channel:
The female wants the two males to fight over her. You should wrestle BOD in front of her, kick his ass and then you have the rights to her babies. So then you could say you fucked BOD up and then fucked up his girl.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 1:57 pm
LMAO.
Just talk to her.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 3:38 pm
It's not cheating but you should pretty much talk to her and ask what's up.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 6:22 pm
Not cheating.
Show her how your train of love can run all day and all night.
She'll be so much pleased with you that she'll beg for more and leave that BOD sonuvabitch.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 8:15 pm
Its not cheating , but if I was her boyfriend and I found out , I would still be pretty pissed . I'm a jealous guy , so thats me . I don't like guys getting too close to my girl.
Sat Dec 24, 2005 8:41 pm
Wow she touched you, OMG her head was on your shoulder... come on man..its not like you penetrated her..
You're just friends. Simple as that.
If you ask her about, you'll just be making the whole situation more awkward then it should.. and in turn lose any chance of tapping it.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 12:00 am
Just give her some of those.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 2:39 am
Cheating....no, but nevertheless there's something wrong with it if you wouldn't feel 100% comfortable telling your partner.
Anyways, like Skip said
A lot of girls are like that...it's just their nature to be close
That's what i figured anyway after this chick had me confused. She had a BF but was chilling with me, and she'd grab my hand and hold it like couples do and she'd lay on top of me (back to chest) when we were watching a scary movie all alone. Once she just randomly stood up and kissed me on the cheek which i thought was kinda odd.
Anyways, it's her move....just wait (im)patiently
Sun Dec 25, 2005 3:52 am
Whenever a girlfriend question rises, go with my advice.
Rape her. Given it's Christmas, perhaps you could rape her & then tickle her dung-hole. Butt-knocker.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 3:58 am
It's not cheating, you're just flirting. Cheating would be having sex, or maybe if you kiss her...but that's about it.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 4:19 am
Think of it this way: If you were BOD, would you say that is cheating or not?
It really depends on the persective, friend. But the one thing that keeps man going throughout is this mere and simple truth: Fight for what you want, and fight with honor.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 4:26 am
Shit like this happens to me all the time, all the girls are on top of me
okay not all of them but a few goodies like to have the flirty with me. fun stuff.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 6:55 am
few goodies like to have the flirty with me. fun stuff.
Because you're just so cute with your school shorts with burger in hand.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 8:21 am
In this situation, it depends. If 'BOD' could kick your ass (or get a bunch of his goons to), stay back. But if he's a wimp, go crazy.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 8:45 am
..don't forget the movie 'revenge of the nerds'... you have been warned.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 6:11 pm
Whenever a girlfriend question rises, go with my advice.
you wouldn't happen to be R. Kelly's adviser? hahaha
why does all your advice end up with some one in jail, inevitably getting raped....a constant cycle i see.
Sun Dec 25, 2005 10:40 pm
Childhood memmories...gotta love em.
Mon Dec 26, 2005 6:02 pm
Jackal was raped/molested by a man?
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