Rip32's Break up help thread..

Alright we seem like we have a bunch of good guys on here so help me out. The story is my g/f of 2 months just broke up with me on the phone (which is the worst thing ever) and the conversation was just "Hey, I have to tell you somthing." I was like "Ok what?" and she pauses for a few secounds and goes"I cant go out with you anymore." in that time im like shit i was just kissing this chick 2 days ago what happened then she said she had to go. Apparently a friend that is mine and hers told me she told all her friends that morning about it and they were giving me pity looks all day like i already knew but i didnt see any thing coming. Sure we didnt talk that day but woop dee doo 1 day. The worst thing is I have no idea why it happened. I mean shes a sophmore and im a freshman, i asked her friend if that was why she broke up with me but it wasn't, than she said she knows why she did it but its not her thing to tell me? Just not knowing why she broke it off with me is whats really pissing me off, so if any of you pimps out there know how to deal with being dumped, help me out.

let her go. just hold your head up high and pretend it didn't stun you. she'll be thinking wtf the whole time

I'm not some of a love expert,but I think you shouldn't think about her again.And yeah,find consolation watching xXx movies...That'll do the trick!

i gotta go with everyone else and just say forget about it.

Stalk her and then kill her. Or forget about it, good luck!

I disagree with forgetting about it. I think you should show that you aren't going to take shit like this. Be brave and ask her to talk to you, and say, Hey, why did you break up with me, I thought everything was going great! Don't let her give you bullshit excuses like "its not you its me." If it turns out (which it most likely will) that she just doesn't like you anymore, once you get that out of her say, ok fine thats all i needed to know. Then people will hear about this and be impressed that you were willing to face the situation head on and you weren't afraid of the truth.

I know it will be hard, but once you do it you'll feel great about yourself. And once other girls find out you did this, you'll have a new chica in no time!

Ask her the reason why. I wouldn't take that shit from her, but at the same time, treat her with courtesy and respect. Find out why, then part ways. There's no sense sticking with her. I've been in a 2 and a half year relationship that ended recently, and the best thing to do is move on.

did u see anything offensive to her or her friends in the last week?

Ask her the reason why. I wouldn't take that shit from her, but at the same time, treat her with courtesy and respect. Find out why, then part ways.

Ive been saying im gonna do that but the 4 or 5 times we usually see eachother at school she knows ill be walking that way and she'll speed up and go with the cold shoulder when i see her.

did u see anything offensive to her or her friends in the last week?

Nah, im a pretty easy to get along with guy and they were always cool with me.

let her go. just hold your head up high and pretend it didn't stun you. she'll be thinking wtf the whole time

Im trying but you cant really let go without knowing why she let go of you.


I want to know how to approach her to get an answer because talking to other chick friends i have, if you talk to a girl right after she broke up with you chances are she'lll go angry bitch on you so im not really sure what to do.

hmm maybe after skool at the bus stop or something

Play it cool. Chicks dont' like guys who keep pushing the same questions over and over.

Forget about her...You only dated her for 2 months..c'mon dude, strip club is that way-->

let her go. just hold your head up high and pretend it didn't stun you. she'll be thinking wtf the whole time

Absolute ditto.

I want to know how to approach her to get an answer because talking to other chick friends i have, if you talk to a girl right after she broke up with you chances are she'lll go angry bitch on you so im not really sure what to do.

exactly.
they want their space when she's ready to talk to you she'll come to you.. i don't know how or i don't know when but they will come to you

Here she left me an AIM message, I got what i wanted i guess...

ok you didnt do anything wrong...but there is like a few things that i need to tell you why i broke up with you...one all of a sudden you got immature it was funny to begin with but then it got annyoing...and two its hard going out with someone when i like someone else...i know you probly hate hearing that but its the truth and im sorry that i did it but things really werent working out for me...i know you will find someone a whole lot better then me...hey your only a freshman you have many years ahead of you...im sry that i did this to you but i hope we can still be friends...i know that it might be hard hearing that i like someone else...but its been like that since way before i was going out with you and it felt like i was lying to you the whole time and i couldnt do it nemore...so ill see ya around.

She told me alot right there. I guess the "immature" part was me trying to keep the relationship fun and games and she must not of wanted that. But when I see this "other guy" he'd better be a fuckin perfect man(lol).
I guess i feel better now and now its just recovery from here. Thanks you guys who gave me tips.

now with what i said initially..

just hold your head up high and pretend it didn't stun you. she'll be thinking wtf the whole time

tell her that the Pistons were your #1 priority anyways and that her breaking up with you is nothing compared to a Pistons loss......that's what I'd do

Lol that message sounds alot similar to the breakup AIM messages Mazzocchi posted a while ago

OH SHIT!! I JUST REALIZED THIS GUY IS A PISTONS FAN!!

i gave advice to a pistons fan...

I dont know what to do...

I feel like a traitor

Here she left me an AIM message, I got what i wanted i guess...

She told me alot right there. I guess the "immature" part was me trying to keep the relationship fun and games and she must not of wanted that. But when I see this "other guy" he'd better be a fuckin perfect man(lol).
I guess i feel better now and now its just recovery from here. Thanks you guys who gave me tips.

Good stuff I'm glad she told you, and whenever you're able to get over her, it'd be nice to be friends (or not). Good luck and take care, there's plenty of fishes in the sea, and you're still damn young, lol

Why the hell do people get so stuck on one girl? Mine dumped me a month ago and I haven't looked back since.

Why the hell do people get so stuck on one girl? Mine dumped me a month ago and I haven't looked back since.

Well, if my girl dumped me today Id have a much larger issue on my hands...

who wants the other ticket i have for game 4 tomorrow?

I'll go, as long as you keep the "we"'s to a minimum and let me throw cups at Rasheed Wallace.

I'll go, as long as you keep the "we"'s to a minimum and let me throw cups at Rasheed Wallace.

I actually don't say we that much, except during playoff time.

Its actually kind of a bad habit.

"90% of women think that the first kiss is the real indication what the realtionship would be like" HITCH

anyway my man....that girl is just unsure of her feelings..try giving things a break then start to be on her again anytime soon....she'll miss your wackiness and who knows she might as well welcome you back...but if the other guy is really better than you, then i guess that's life...sometimes we win sometimes we lose......