Need help with women?

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this girl is Colombian, has a fine behind aswell and a nice set of lips

Jackal, is it just me or are you the only other guy on here that holds the female ass so high. Hooray for fine Latina ass

[Jackal]

Coming from a Latin American dominated island (Puerto Ricans, Colombians, Venezuelans and of course Antillians), you can't not have high standards in the case of the ass.

Come to think of it, I've only been with one girl who was flat in that area and that's also because I just adored her. Then she broke my heart and went out with a dope dealer. Hooray for women indeed. Stupid cunt.

Edit: That's a nice number for a post count.

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Oh how I envy you. I have always wanted to live in somewhere like Brazil, Puerto Rico, Colombia, etc. for a year or two because of the fine women.

Perfect girl looks-wise to me would be a chick of average of short height, long dark hair, dark eyes, caramel skin, thick thighs and a big round ass.... Where else to go but Latin America?

A dope dealer... interesting choice to say the least.

[Jackal]

short height, long dark hair, dark eyes, caramel skin, thick thighs and a big round ass

You just described the arabic girl. She doesn't have thick thighs, pretty proportioned, but she's got those dark raccoon style eyes...

Yeah, she didn't know he was a dope dealer though, we found that out later. I think that's why she went out with him, because her parents didn't want her to. The more you forbid, the more enticing it becomes. Women...

[MacGuyver]

thank you for that advice laxy boy. the reason she asked for my help was that we got it going in the past not that she can't handle me, so we ended up good friends with benefits it all ended when she started being together with this bad boy type guy as you willfully describe.

anyways i don't know but i feel happy when old flames and old friends find happiness with other guys, just make me feel a bit more complete. i do play around often before too and somehow age changes you for the better.

if all ends well to all of you guys, my advice is to be just your plain old self. a lady will always go for the real guy and not for the great pretender.

if many ladies don't fall for your qualities and all, there will be more lining up in the near future, trust me. age old wines are better than decades old rhums like i use to say.


btw that painting of the standing girl is nice. who was the artist?

[Indy]

I'm going out with this girl who actually just quit working at the office where I work, but I mentioned that I was going to go after it in j.23s thread about the girl at his work.

She is so amazingly fine, and a perfect personality for me too. Some of you may remember that I had a girlfriend for about 3 years, and then she broke up with me after we took a trip to Canada together. We planned to move to Indianapolis together, but one of the main reasons I didn't end up staying there was because I missed her too much and I thought about how much better my time there would have been if she was with me, but this new girl, Stephanie has made me completely forget about her. Stephanie is like her in so many ways, but it's like an upgrade. She's even better looking, has an even better sense of humor, and is so perfect for me in so many ways, we are quite a match. I've only been dating her for about a month now, but I think it's going to last for awhile. This is very strange for me too, because I love one night stands so much more then being in relationships, but this is the second time I feel like I'm in a serious relationship.

[j.23]

lol, laxation i wish you didn't post that friendzone article because i feel like choking myself right now.

so from what i got out of it is that its actually better to rush things than to simply wait it out. lax -- another question. is it a better route to phone/txt the chick or wait for her to phone/txt?

[[Q]]

yeah I've learned in the past 3 years here at the University that the "homely type" you speak of always wins out.
The way I see it, the hot ones know they're hot and are stuck up and egotistical a lot of times. but the thing is that once you see another hot girl, it's like you can forget about the first hot girl. you might think about her once in a long while and think damn she was hot, but she won't cross your mind much after she's gone.
However, the cute funny homely types are the ones that always have you thinking about them afte they're long gone. in 3 years, I've met 2 girls like this. to be honest, at first I didn't really notice them at first, they're thos girls you'd see in a room and say she's cute, but not like the hot ones you'd check out for a long time. but after you get to know them and you learn that they're more well-rounded than the hot ones, somehow they become hotter (at least to me they become hotter). I find myself thinking about conversations I had with them or things I did with them more often than the time I saw some hot chick I know.

That's just the thing. This hot one doesn't have that about her. As I said, she's more reserved opposed to snooty. She's hot, that's already a fact, but there's something more, she's like...there and you know she is, but she can just as well be in the background and you could be busy with someone else but you just know she's there. That sort of effect she has. The cute one is always up in your face, not in a bad way, she's entertaining.

The cute one I refer to as cute, but don't get the wrong idea, this girl is Colombian, has a fine behind aswell and a nice set of lips. The other girl is Arabic and also has nice features. (Oh bum...)

I see the Arabic one more often, we work together and I see her at college on and off. The cute one stays in another city but we've got history (as friends)...so we'll keep seeing eachother at get togethers aswell. Blah, fuck this, I'm going to die alone. Relationships stink.

well, since you see the quietbuthotArabic girl more, (and sounds like you prefer her), you might as well go for her. Plus, you already know the Colombian girl, so you can try something new.

and the whole thing on those South American big-bootied girls, I remember in high school there was this one girl I really dug and her mom is from Ecuador (and her mom also was a teacher at my elementary school ) and her dad is Irish. Great combo, I must say.

and on middle-eastern girls, I gotta say there are some that are ridiculously hot. I love the dark eye makeup they have around their eyes and most of them have nice bodies too. I knew one girl in high school (who goes to my university too) who's family was from Iran but they're all totally whitewashed and I'm not really into short girls but she must've had the biggest boobs on a girl like 5'1" I've ever seen.

[Jackal]

well, since you see the quietbuthotArabic girl more, (and sounds like you prefer her), you might as well go for her. Plus, you already know the Colombian girl, so you can try something new.

True, very true. The hassle of traveling and not seeing the cute one whenever I feel like it has been a factor. I am leaning towards the arabic one, but...I'm still uncertain.

and the whole thing on those South American big-bootied girls, I remember in high school there was this one girl I really dug and her mom is from Ecuador (and her mom also was a teacher at my elementary school ) and her dad is Irish. Great combo, I must say.

You said it my friend, I've got so many female friends that are a mixture of White Dutch Folks + Brown Latin Folks = some fine ass.

and on middle-eastern girls, I gotta say there are some that are ridiculously hot. I love the dark eye makeup they have around their eyes and most of them have nice bodies too. I knew one girl in high school (who goes to my university too) who's family was from Iran but they're all totally whitewashed and I'm not really into short girls but she must've had the biggest boobs on a girl like 5'1" I've ever seen.

This girl is a mix, I think one of her parents are Arabic and the other is just from here. But you're right, some middle eastern girls are indeed mouth watering, although personally speaking, I've never gotten far. My family is hindu, they are muslims, that tends to have it's own friction and what not. Some of them are uptight bitches too, especially for a person who's used to the teasing/flirtatious women of Curacao.

Let's see what happens, I'm going to be seeing one of them on Wednesday.

[Dramacydal]

I just came in here to let you know that I don't need no help at all. Been together with my girl for 15 months now and it couldn't be better, even after all that time it's still perfect.

Ever had a fight with her?

Of course we had some fights but luckily they were almost all extremely minor so we solved the problems quicker than AI drives to the basket. There was only one situation where we had a bigger arguement and I felt like breaking up. But we've been able to discuss that and to understand each other and the next night it was all good again. 15 months without any fights wouldn't be normal if you ask me.

[bigh0rt]

I just came in here to let you know that I don't need no help at all. Been together with my girl for 15 months now and it couldn't be better, even after all that time it's still perfect.

Ever had a fight with her?

Of course we had some fights but luckily they were almost all extremely minor so we solved the problems quicker than AI drives to the basket. There was only one situation where we had a bigger arguement and I felt like breaking up. But we've been able to discuss that and to understand each other and the next night it was all good again. 15 months without any fights wouldn't be normal if you ask me.

Actually it's more normal than you may think. The fact that you 'felt like breaking up' in the one bigger fight you've had in the time period is somewhat worrysome, as an onlooker. My now ex-fiance and I went easily the first year of our relationship without as much as a cross word to another, but as the comfort level rises, so does the comfort with contesting and challenging and battling the other. It's normal -- don't worry. It's when you're unprepared and unable to pick and choose which battles you wish to take part in, where the problems lie, and at which point, you may abruptly lose your relationship up until which point, has been cooler than the other side of the pillow. What I'm saying is, arguments are normal. Your parents do it, so do mine, so do everyone's -- every couple you'll ever meet will have them, whether you see them or not. It's the ability to limit what is said and done during them, resolve them quickly, and put them behind you that makes a lasting relationship.

[Jackal]

That's what he was saying. Without fighting, it wouldn't be normal. So he's saying fighting is normal.

[Dramacydal]

^Haha, exactly.

When I had read half his post I was like "Hold on, what are you talking about?" I don't need advice because everything's perfect. I don't worry at all because the way things go right now I know that me and my girl have quite a good looking future.

And the fact that I felt like breaking up for like one hour or something is not worrysome at all. We solved that problem and it's 100% done really.

What I'm saying is, arguments are normal. Your parents do it, so do mine, so do everyone's

No disrespect here, I mean your post might have been useful if I would think the way you thought I'd think, but that quote right there is extremely funny to me. It's like a father telling his little boy about the bees and the flowers.

Off topic but my I ask how old you are? Just curious.

[bigh0rt]

^Haha, exactly.

When I had read half his post I was like "Hold on, what are you talking about?" I don't need advice because everything's perfect. I don't worry at all because the way things go right now I know that me and my girl have quite a good looking future.

And the fact that I felt like breaking up for like one hour or something is not worrysome at all. We solved that problem and it's 100% done really.

What I'm saying is, arguments are normal. Your parents do it, so do mine, so do everyone's

No disrespect here, I mean your post might have been useful if I would think the way you thought I'd think, but that quote right there is extremely funny to me. It's like a father telling his little boy about the bees and the flowers.

Off topic but my I ask how old you are? Just curious.

Didn't mean to come off 'like a father telling his little boy about...' - so apologies there. Could be that I'm just out of sorts to a degree since the woman I was going to marry moved out a week and a half ago.

Maybe I mis-read something *shrug*

I'm 22, btw.

[Dramacydal]

No apologies necessary. It was kinda funny but I know that there were no bad intentions at all so it's all good.

Maybe I mis-read something *shrug*

Yeah you did. I was basically trying to say that everything's perfect and me and my girl's relationship couldn't be better.

the woman I was going to marry moved out a week and a half ago.

Sorry to hear that. Is it like the definite end or is there a chance you'll get things straight again?

[Jackal]

If she's moved out, lucky you. Relationships are shit. Time consuming & energy suckers.

[cyanide]

Arguments are good, they only make a couple understand each other more, whether that leads to acceptance or a break up. There were a lot of arguments with my gf and I the past 9 months, but I'm starting to adjust and learn what ticks her off, and she's learning about what ticks me off. Nowadays, things just pick up for the better since we're both making an effort and having a greater awareness about who we are and I don't think I've had an argument with her for just over a month now.

[Cable]

Whew! *comes up for air*

I just read this whole thread in one go. I don't have anything to say right now, but I'll be back. Oh yes, I'll be back.

I'm back quicker than I thought. Right, I know I tease girls, cause I do it to everyone (maybe that's a problem?), and I know my problem (I guess 'I don't have the confidence' is one way to put it) so I'm just going to sit back and read here, unless someone wants to give a needy fellow some tips. Does it all come down to have the confidence and just going for it? Oh, and is a dance a good place to go for it? Cause there's a semi-formal coming up at my school and I've thought about asking a girl to it, but I can't decide between asking her to go with me before, or asking her when I get there.

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I just saw a girl I went out with about 2 years ago the other night. She is Fijian and soooo fine. Now shes filled out, I couldn't believe it. Then she told me she's going to the Olympics in 2008 for Judo

[Jugs]

I saw the girl i like on the way home from school (went home early) and i wound down the window and yelled her name and gave her a thumb up (LIKE WTF IS THAT FOR A FUCKING WAVE IDIOT JUGS IDIOT) and she turned around and waved EMPHATICALY. WITH EMPHASIS. [melo15boy]zomg shes liekz me zo much[/melo15boy]

But that's not the point. The point is that I'm wondering if I should make me and her a couple. I've probably been friendzowned but she did tell me she likes me as a friend and more. MORE.

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First off, why would you give her a thumbs up?






That doesn't exactly scream out "I want you!", it's more suited for telling little kids they did something right. Anyway, good to know she likes you as a friend and more, just never do that again

[J@3]

Going to Laxation for advice on girls is like going to a brothel hoping to find a virgin.

[Dro]

and on middle-eastern girls, I gotta say there are some that are ridiculously hot. I love the dark eye makeup they have around their eyes and most of them have nice bodies too. I knew one girl in high school (who goes to my university too) who's family was from Iran but they're all totally whitewashed and I'm not really into short girls but she must've had the biggest boobs on a girl like 5'1" I've ever seen.

Hehe...I plan on going to UCLA for graduate school mainly because of the thousands upon thousands of young Iranian women in Los Angeles.

BUT...relationships with Middle Eastern women, especially Iranians, is a BITCH 4 out of 5 times (the ones here are, anyway). It seems like most Middle Eastern girls don't want to be associated with the women in the middle east who cover themselves up in veils, so you're right, they do become a bit whitewashed. But they're still stingy as hell, which is sooooo frustrating. There actually are many Iranian women here in Phoenix, but I pretty much gave up on them after my Junior year...too many bad experiences. Hopefully the ones in LA will be different.

Jackal, always go for the boo-tay. Always.

[The Other Kevin]

Going to Laxation for advice on girls is like going to a brothel hoping to find a virgin.

Or going to NLSC to find a good discussion.

[Jugs]

I think Jae should be doing this.

He told me that if a girl is sms-ing you during school, they're thinking of you. It happened to me. the girl I liked sms-ed me during school.