I know i shouldn't leave a topic like this in here

[bestage]

but i think i really have to say this. K-Durant should be banned from this forum. He goes to patchers' topics and just criticize them. He doesn't leave any criticism that can help the patchers to improve but he just criticize them and compare them with other patchers. He commented that bigh0rt's jersey patches are a lot better than loosers' patch in looser's thread. He just downloads the patches and doesn't thank what patchers do. then he demands patchers to make more. it sounds rather demanding than asking. I know i'm also doing something wrong but i really want to say it. Also he doesn't mind to comment reallly badly such as saying he thinks the patches suck or he doesn't want to download. Why can't he just shut up if he doesn't want to download if he's not gonna leave a comment that can help the patchers. No one asked for his opinions. Then he REPEATEDLY says the patcher sucks. K DURANT SHOULD BE BANNED FROM THIS FORUM

[[S]Reaver]

Whoa man...keep the cool. You had some good reasons in the top half of your post, but I could tell you were letting your frustration take over your thoughts as the post went on. It's good to know that you have some conscience, unlike some of the other flat-out flamers, but just a tip. In a forum, the one with the most amount of reasons and examples to back up his/her opinion, yet also post with the least amount of emotion (usually anger), is the final winner.

I can understand your feelings towards K-Durant's actions, but it's always a good idea to keep your emotions in check, if you hope to have others understand and support your opinion.

All in all, though I am no moderator, there are definitely people on this forum with a little too much ego, and refuse to show any "soft spots", and here we have K-Durant in the spotlight. Sure, he doesn't like to show gratitude to contributors of the forum, and sure, he loves to criticize in nonconstructive manner. But in time, I believe that he will start to see the consequences caused by his own actions, and learn from them. Thus, I believe he should not be permanently banned from this forum, as he needs to learn (by himself, and perhaps with some small help from the community ) to think before posting. And this is an important step in the maturation process.

But hey, nothing a little warning can't do, right?

[bestage]

well i have no frustration but i thought this could mature k-durant. and it was from my anger than frustration. k-durant was way too rude just to ignore. well but i think you're right. i should've kept my cool. but i'm gonna leave this until k-durant sees this. so he can realize what he had done and get some changes. well if you guys don't think this should be here you can move or delete.

[[S]Reaver]

Hey man..it's cool. We all learn from experiences on forums...at least, I did. Take this as a pointer or a tip, and you'll be a great contributing member in no time!

[JT_55]

If you have a problem with one of the members in this forum you should talk to a moderator instead of making a new topic and calling them out.

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