there was this girl i used to be real close with in high school. in essence, we were pretty much bestfriends (i hate calling girls my bestfriends
). anyways after high school, (you'll experience this too trust me, so something to think about) we started to drift apart like a lot of other people do. we still kept in contact though, but not as much. keep in mind, it's not like there were obstacles to overcome, we live 10 minutes away from each other. actually no, i take that back. a couple months after graduation, she met some guy on the internet and totally fell in love with him. this was a shocker because a.) she's a retard when it comes to computers; it's mind boggling how she found this guy, and b.) she was serious about this guy and was actually considering giving this dude a chance. needless to say she knew i didn't like the guy but she didn't care and they engaged in a relationship. i think this is when our friendship went kinda sour because we started talking less and less. i think the day we completely cut each other off was a couple days after they broke up. it's not like we had a big blowoff or a fight, we just stopped talking. this was a year ago. i guess you can say everything's been dandy since then. i used to think about her all the time (if you haven't clued in, i had(?) feelings for her) but after the "blowoff" i was pretty surprised at how happy i was. its hard to explain, but i felt less restricted and stressed about certain things. fast forward to a couple weeks ago. this might sound corny but i had a dream about her. i didn't think much of it until a couple days later when one of our mutual friends told me she was throwing a party and she left me off the list while she invited everyone else we were really good friends with. he (mutual friend) asked her why and she said that we didn't talk anymore yet she was interested in how i was doing. so after finding out about this, i now know what it feels like to be an emo fag. i'm stressed, and there all these emotions bottled up inside and i don't know what to do. you know how i said that after i stopped talking to her i've never felt happier. right now, i've never felt more miserable. what the hell do i do? she has a boyfriend now and i think she's moved on. she's sticking with her story that i stopped answering my phonecalls a year ago, but that's a lie. should i call? what should i say? i can't believe i'm pulling a meloboy. halp. 
), a good opener could be; "Hi, we haven't spoken in ages and I just wanted to ask how you've been doing." For some reason even the rudest of rude girls seem to find this highly amusing/sensitive. You're actually calling to enquire about their well being? My God. Unheard of. Naturally the next part is her being civil and asking you how you're doing, you proceed to tell her you'd be doing a whole lot better if the two of you were still on speaking terms as it was before. Here's where it gets tough, she'll probably rehash the old stuff but if you play the conversation accordingly well, you'll find yourself in the friend-zone once again. Stress upon the good times, reminisce about stuff that you guys did and were fun for the both of you. The good memories I suppose.
) but it's best not to care....it sounds like shit advice & maybe it is, but if you don't care, you don't care about the outcome....deep down you will care, but girls tend to like guys not appearing to care....I don't know, females are strange....
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, thats clearly what im looking for 
