Help trying to prove a point

[Ruff Ryder]

Here's the down low: My dad is a bad father. He doesnt know the least about fathering. He thinks he's always right but when he's proved wrong he thinks he is really right just because he is the father. It annoys me to death.

Today, me and my fuckin little sister got in a fight. She's 13, I'm 15. She comes out tattling (like usual) to my dad and making it seem like I tried to beat the shit out of her and she didnt do anything, when she really threw my suff and tried to kick me. She also clawed me with her really long nails. She probably ways as much as I do and gets absolutely no excersize, unless getting up and turning the channel on TV counts.

Anyhow, my dad and his expertise fathering says "I'll call the cops on both of yall for assault. Yall are both old enough to go to jail." I just rolled my eyes while he cussed and stuff.

We arent real welthy so I sleep in the living room. She and my older sister share a room. So it all started when I came in wanting to watch the playoffs and sit down. My older sister was sitting between 2 seats and my younger one was taking up a seat an a half. My older sister got up to get on the computer so I sat down. Then my little sister, disgusted that she had to sit next to me decided to throw my stuff and leave, so I threw her stuff. Then she started hitting me and I hit her back. I pushed her over on the couch and she tried to kick me so I hit her again. Then she got up and tried to kick me but I countered and kicked her down on the floor while still sitting on the couch. (She thinks she can beat me by just kicking me in the balls.)

So she tattles and shit, and is like "I dont care if you send us to jail, just as long as I get away from him". So I say "Why dont you just go to your room and you'll be away." She's like, "It's too hot." I say I have nothing but a couch to sit on and a TV, but she has her room and a bed, chair and desk. Then my dad is like "God-dammit, its hot!(referring to their room"

Now I want to prove a point that he doesnt know how to father real well. Preferably by sending him an e-mail or something, not directly telling him. He tries to solve problems in the family like on the street-fighting. Once he threw my older sister down on the floor (She's like 5'9, 200 lbs (Over 80 kgs). Also, while I was watching the finals he leaned her over the couch, back on the armrest and yelled at her, practically spitting in her face.


Sorry for such a long post, just pissed off.

[J@3]

JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

[magius]

well, it seems like whatever you might say is just going to piss him off anyway which will then piss you off more creating a never ending cycle. just use him as an example of what not to be, wait till you're 18, get rich, and watch his pathetic life wither away and then when he's so old he cant shit without your help tell him to go fuck himself which then becomes subsequentally very funny because he cant even do that anymore

nah, i know a lot fathers and people generally always think they're right and are stubborn in their pride, but you got to let it go because if you cant do that you'll inevitably become what you hate anyway. if he's like that thats his problem not yours.

dont hit girls!!! next time, just wait till she leaves and THEN throw her stuff on the ground, or maybe introduce her toothbrush to your butt

*sigh*, the knowledge of the aged.

[Andreas Dahl]

Well. A lot of kinds think bad of their fathers... It's not a special thing realy.
What I suggest is that you don't hit your sisster... Tattle on her
Na, just try to ignore her as much as possible when she's like that. In due time she'll (hopefully) grow up some...

[Filip]

My father is a dictator some times man.
Whenever I don't agree with him on something, he calles me rude.
Anyway, everyone got small family problems, nuting' special

[hmm]

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[Ruff Ryder]

well, it seems like whatever you might say is just going to piss him off anyway which will then piss you off more creating a never ending cycle. just use him as an example of what not to be, wait till you're 18, get rich, and watch his pathetic life wither away and then when he's so old he cant shit without your help tell him to go fuck himself which then becomes subsequentally very funny because he cant even do that anymore

Lol. I was thinking some of that too.

Na, just try to ignore her as much as possible when she's like that. In due time she'll (hopefully) grow up some...

Its hard as hell to ignore her. She has been acting the same for like 8 years. Like a baby. She is lazy as shit. Atleast I'll be moved out in a couple of years. She is just really annoying and does little stuff to piss me off. I dont have to say anything for her to yell "SHUT UP!"

What I suggest is that you don't hit your sisster... Tattle on her

That bugs the shit out of my dad. He used to listen to her tattling all of the time and yell at me, but she lies have of the time. So now he justs shrugs it off or yells at her or me whenever I do it (which is rarely.).

Thanks for the help guys.