Thanks guys, Il check out that computerforums site to see what they say.. Ive restarted several times since then, as its not an always on machine anyway.... problem persists. Only thing running in the background is pinnacle game profiler (which ROCKS by the way), windowblinds, the intel wireless network manager, and the generic windows crap. depending on what im doing ill disable the network card and turn off the firewall/anti-v stuff if i dont particularly need it, (non-online games, photoshop... shit like that).
But in either sorts, ill keep searching, again its a major nuisance more than anything else, she probably never would have even noticed it. If I find out anything I'll be a douche and bump the topic.