Research finds women feel happy when their partner is upset

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relationship ... upset.html

Women can feel happy when they see their husband or partner is upset, new research has suggested.

The detailed study found that wives or girlfriends were pleased when their partner showed emotion because they believed it demonstrated a healthy relationship.

The survey, carried out by Harvard Medical School, also found that when men realised their wife was angry, the women reported being happier, although the men were not.

It revealed women most likely enjoyed spotting when their partner was dissatisfied because it showed his strong "engagement" or "investment" in their time together.

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“Women’s satisfaction was more strongly related to the perception that their partners were trying to understand their negative emotions than to men’s actual accuracy in reading those emotions.”

And because the researcher says:

“This is consistent with what is known about the dissatisfaction women often experience when their male partner becomes emotionally withdrawn and disengaged in response to conflict.”

I'll re-post this classic:

I don't think those researchers actually have any woman of their own, this stuff is load of crap.

Head researcher is a woman.

Head researcher is a woman.

Shemale?

The survey, carried out by Harvard Medical School, also found that when men realised their wife was angry, the women reported being happier, although the men were not.

Makes sense. The wives are happy because their feelings are being acknowledged, the husbands aren't happy because there's tension and argument.

Does that mean I should act pissed off all the time in order to make my girl happy? But we Canadianz are nothing like Russian menz.

Apparently so.

The survey, carried out by Harvard Medical School, also found that when men realised their wife was angry, the women reported being happier, although the men were not.

Makes sense. The wives are happy because their feelings are being acknowledged, the husbands aren't happy because there's tension and argument.

I agree. Sadly it is probably true. I hate that shit.

maybe acknowledge feelings before resorting to anger?