Different Kinds of relationships..

Hey , just wanted to see your views on different kinds of relationships...
Heres a list , feel free to add any more if you want ...

Gay/Lesbian - I think that if you are that way , then go ahead and do it. I don't see anything wrong with it , as long as they don't take it to far .

Interracial - I don't see why people make a big deal about a black guy with a white girl or vice versa. I was watching a show on MTV about interracial dating . There is nothing wrong at all and it shouldn't be made a big deal at all.

Large Age Range - For example , a 22 year old with a 16 year old . Personally , I think that is disgusting and the girl is exploiting herself to some older guy who probably only wants ass since young girls are retarted and give up ass easily.

Friends with Benefits - Why not just be a couple? I don't see the point of this . Don't do anything unless you have feelings , I don't believe in kissing someone who isn't your girlfriend. I believe in only doing things with feelings , not for pleasure or anything else.

Mistress(cheating) - Stay loyal to your partner , no need to cheat on that person for another person...

Hidden - Don't see why you can't be open about your relationship , no need to keep your relationship away from the world....

Young Love - hmmmm , I don't know what to say about this . Avoid relationships while your young , too immature when your young as hell.Causes nothing but problems...

Well , those are my thoughts , what are your opinions?

Last edited by Doobie on Wed Feb 22, 2006 7:49 am, edited 1 time in total.

Friends with Benefits - Why not just be a couple? I don't see the point of this . Don't do anything unless you have feelings , I don't believe in kissing someone who isn't your girlfriend. I believe in only doing things with feelings , not for pleasure or anything else.

I'll comment on this ..cause i have experience with it. It's a little immature imo for you to say you shouldnt be with someone cause of pleasure...according to whose rules? I dont see a problem with two consenting adults..who both agree they are together just for the sake of sex..having a casual relationship. I do it all the the time..its fun. It doesn't hurt anyone.

Mistress(cheating) - Stay loyal to your partner , no need to cheat on that person for another person...

I agree with this one..if im married...but being that im not...i atleast try to keep it on the downlow.

Agree with Yohance on the FWB thing. Nothing more to add.

Thank you for stating your opinion , personally , I think friends with benefits / one night stands / etc.... are all immature for the fact that I believe sex and stuff should only be done with feelings being involved . I could've had sex with a girl before , but I didn't because I didn't have feelings for the girl . I lost my virginity when I was 15 , and it was with a girl I had feelings for . I didn't feel guilty until something happned which is another story . I am not going to have sex until marriage because of this situation . Anyways back to the point , Love is something special , and so is sex . Sex should be saved for the right moments with someone you have feelings for . I respect your opinion Yohance and I'm just stating mine . I don't see anything wrong with what you believe in , I just don't believe in it.

What are feelings though... I mean feelings aren't limited to just love and that kind of thing. Physical attraction, sexual feelings (yes I know, no song lyrics) all count aswell. If you're sexually attracted to someone, regardless of whether they have the personality of a dead cactus, it's still having feelings for them.

You do make a good point there Jae , but by feelings I meant love and that kind of thing . Well thats me though , I wouldn't even kiss a girl ,much less have sex with a girl that isn't my girlfriend . But I understand where you are coming from and I have nothing against your opinion , thats just not my way of being.

That's understandable...

Large Age Range - For example , a 22 year old with a 16 year old . Personally , I think that is disgusting and the girl is exploiting herself to some older guy who probably only wants ass since young girls are retarted and give up ass easily.

That's one of my pet hates. Especially like 18 year olds with 14 year olds. It's sick, and the girls are too young/stupid to know any better. In England every day after school there'd be all of these 20 year old guys in their cars lined up to pick up their 15 year old girlfriends

Yes , I completely agree . It's like that over here too , and all the girls brag about it until they get dumped . My friend (16 years old) got pregnant by her boyfriend (26 year old) and now she is a single 16 year old mother . Guys like that are just taking advantage of the stupidness of a younger girl . And younger girls are idiots for letting themselves get taken advantage of . My cousin is with a 23 year old (shes 16) and I tell her not to be with him , but she says guys her age are too immature . That shit pisses me off .

A friend of mine was doing a 13 year old, I asked him what the attraction was, he said "the tighter, the better".

My response was apparently so horrifying that he's stopped speaking to me but he also broke it off with the girl.

And to think, all I said was...

I'll remember to say that when I rape your newborn baby. The tighter the better.

You are a horrible...horrible...ly funny many, Jackal.

Thank you for stating your opinion , personally , I think friends with benefits / one night stands / etc.... are all immature for the fact that I believe sex and stuff should only be done with feelings being involved . I could've had sex with a girl before , but I didn't because I didn't have feelings for the girl . I lost my virginity when I was 15 , and it was with a girl I had feelings for . I didn't feel guilty until something happned which is another story . I am not going to have sex until marriage because of this situation . Anyways back to the point , Love is something special , and so is sex . Sex should be saved for the right moments with someone you have feelings for . I respect your opinion Yohance and I'm just stating mine . I don't see anything wrong with what you believe in , I just don't believe in it.

Yeah i had a situation like that happen to me with one of my best friends she was drunk and passed out on my stairs. i took her to my room and let her pass out on my BED!! i didnt have sex with this girl after she was passed out on my BED!! after the party, I'll i did cause i was so drunk i passed out right next to her and the next day she was all pissed off cause i didnt hit it lol that was some BS. next time if i know im not going to hit it just leave her ass passed out on the stairs.

Gay/Lesbian - They're human, and whether it's a psychological or genetic that determines their sexual orientation, let them be happy with who they are. I have no problems with the gay/lesbian community since they're not hurting anyone.

Interracial - No problem either. It's becoming more accepted these days now as globalization and multiculturalism has become the norm.

Large Age Range - The younger, the more problematic. It's not so bad if a 30 year old marries a 40 year old, but a 15 year old and a 22 year old getting involved? You got naivity and immaturity with the 15 year old and a totally different goal-oriented being in the 22 year old. It's definitely a problem.

Friends with Benefits - More often than not, it causes emotional problems in the short-term or long run. I'm totally against this, since I'm an extremely loyal person. I can understand the uses of only being due to physical "relief" but there's no doubt that feelings and emotion will come into play. Sexual expression largely resonates with emotional expressions, and more often than not, it's a problem.

Mistress(cheating) - My biggest fear, period. I hate to hear about relationships being ruined because of cheating. It's the stupidest and most selfish thing anyone can do. I hate the idea of cheating so much that I would lose all respect for anyone who does this.

Hidden - Number one reason for failed relationships: Communcation. Number one reason for successful relationships: Communication. It all lies in being honest and open about each other. Relationships are successful when you're honest about everything and acknowledging what each other desires and fears and be considerate and respectful about it.

Young Love - Naive and immature, but necessary, imo. Future relationships would be difficult to establish without experience. I don't encourage sex at such an early age, but having a relationship is still important to learn the tools of how to maintain one.

Bizzy - What you say? All your base are belong to me! Yes...

Gay/Lesbian - I think that if you are that way , then go ahead and do it. I don't see anything wrong with it , as long as they don't take it to far .

They can do whatever they want, I have no problem with it, nor any involvement, so I couldn't really care less.

Interracial - I don't see why people make a big deal about a black guy with a white girl or vice versa. I was watching a show on MTV about interracial dating . There is nothing wrong at all and it shouldn't be made a big deal at all.

My parents were interracial, I'm half-black, so anyone who has a problem with it can kiss my ass because I don't want to hear it. Besides, I dont' see how anyone can see it as a bad thing. If you love someone it shouldn't matter.

Large Age Range - For example , a 22 year old with a 16 year old . Personally , I think that is disgusting and the girl is exploiting herself to some older guy who probably only wants ass since young girls are retarted and give up ass easily.

This does seem a little weird, I know 4 girls who have gotten involved with guys who were 5 years older...let's just say that 3 can no longer wear white to their wedding safely.

Friends with Benefits - Why not just be a couple? I don't see the point of this . Don't do anything unless you have feelings , I don't believe in kissing someone who isn't your girlfriend. I believe in only doing things with feelings , not for pleasure or anything else.

This shit's amazing, I love friends with benefits. You've never thought someone was hot but didn't want a relationship? I guess you can call it immature, I wouldn't mind being as I am 13, but IMO whoever came up with the idea is a god.

Mistress(cheating) - Stay loyal to your partner , no need to cheat on that person for another person...

Completely agree here, cheating sucks.

Hidden - Don't see why you can't be open about your relationship , no need to keep your relationship away from the world....

Honestly never heard of someone doing this and don't see the point. When I like a girl enough to go out with her I want to tell the world, not hide it.

Young Love - hmmmm , I don't know what to say about this . Avoid relationships while your young , too immature when your young as hell.Causes nothing but problems...

For me, everything causes problems, love is the least of it. That's just the way it is.

For me, everything causes problems, love is the least of it. That's just the way it is.

There ain't no love at 13, bud. Not even close. There's plenty of time ahead for that can of worms.

For me, everything causes problems, love is the least of it. That's just the way it is.

There ain't no love at 13, bud. Not even close. There's plenty of time ahead for that can of worms.

Tell that to my Freshmen students I see sucking face in the hallway before class, telling each other "I love you" 13 times each before they leave one another for the next agonizing 42 minutes...

A friend of mine was doing a 13 year old, I asked him what the attraction was, he said "the tighter, the better".

My response was apparently so horrifying that he's stopped speaking to me but he also broke it off with the girl.

And to think, all I said was...

I'll remember to say that when I rape your newborn baby. The tighter the better.

that's gold....he was asking for it though

the thought of it is sickening, but you were just trying to get your point across in a direct way


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Gay/Lesbian: whatever floats their boat
FWB: good
Interracial: good
large age range: if I were still 22, my limit would be 18....16 is legal over here, but is a tad dodgey....can understand why guy's do it, easy score....don't care if girls get pregnant or STD's as they are stupid in the first place....
Mistress: bad
Hidden: it's up to the individual, if it's a FWB, of course they want it hidden
Young Love: bad

I would rate gays better than vegetarians.
at least gays are eating some sort of meat