Axel wrote:I am not opposed to symbolic representation. In fact, I have a rainbow bracelet although I do not wear it all the time. I wear it simply to show that I will not allow the closed mindedness and hatred of others dictate the freedom with which I live my life. It's not to flaunt out that I'm gay, or to force it upon others. It's also for recognition, though not in the way you might think. Recognition among other LGBTQ people. I don't wear it with the heterosexual people in mind. It's to help identify and find similar people.
Oh, I know, and have no problem with that. You surely know of the type of people I am talking about however. It is not just gays, although it is a lot easier to choose to be gay than my other examples, it is people who like to constantly inform you they're black, left-handed, so tall they have to squat to pee, etc. People who need to indentify themselves only as part of a group, and not as an individual.
I have so many friends who are afraid of coming out because of the consequences it could have. They are afraid to have a real relationship because that would mean that those close to them would find out. So instead, they resort to having sex with multiple partners to try to fulfill their needs. I fear for them because that just means that they're putting themsleves at risk for STDs - and so much of this could be avoided if they were only free to express themselves as they would without hate.
Well, I think people should be free to hate as well.
I am of the mindset, that if someone is going to judge you or hate you for something like that, they do not likely deserve a relationship like you anyway. How many people keep things from people, to their detriment, or whatever completely unrelated to sexuality?
I guess Axel fits in pretty well then. We're just a bunch of guys that talk about games where a bunch of big, grown, mostly black men bounce a bunch of balls and slap each other and have jump balls and loose balls and back door plays.
